My boundaries and yours
To become and remain my client, you must respect the following. There are no exceptions.
* Sexual: I do not offer nudity or sexual stimulation of any kind, including oral, anal, or manual stimulation. These are not merely legal disclaimers, they are real personal limits.
* Physical: I do not engage in physical contact such as cuddling, kissing, or body worship. Expect warmth balanced with formality and reserve.
* Emotional: my caring is tangible and genuine, but our connection always remains in the professional realm. Refrain from pursuing any type of personal relationship.
* Time: compensation is non-negotiable and required at full rate for my time in any form, including companionship, correspondence, and distance domination.
* Health and Safety: communicate honestly about health issues. Follow any directions I give on physical preparation. Arrive completely sober.
* Power exchange: During our time together, I maintain control and direction. I engage with mutual interests at my discretion, and do not offer any activity as a purely commercial service.
*Other limits: I do not offer "full toilet" or "brown showers" sessions, strap on play, forced bi, "slut training," rubber/latex fetish play, smothering/face-sitting, full-body leather bondage or mummification, wrestling, boxing, or breath play.
I respect your boundaries. In addition to the following, I am open to learning about any additional boundaries you may have.
* Confidentiality: your confidentiality is my highest priority. Every system I use for our communication is designed to protect it. I use pgp encrypted online forms, password protected encrypted email, a blocked phone number to communicate with you, and can provide a written confidentiality agreement upon request. I will not contact you without your permission.
* Safety: I take a range of measures to address health and safety concerns. My chambers are immaculate and well-maintained. I attend educational workshops regularly and am fully trained in the techniques I use. I insist on informed consent, and will discuss health and safety issues so that you may make informed decisions. I offer a library of reference materials and can point you towards other educational resources as well.
* Limits: I respect limits. My application and induction process promotes thorough communication so that I will understand your limits. The use of safe words and safe signals allows you to assert further limits during play.
