My boundaries and yours

To become and remain my client, you must respect the following.  There are no exceptions.

    * Sexual: I do not offer nudity or sexual stimulation of any kind, including oral, anal, or manual stimulation.  These are not merely legal disclaimers, they are real personal limits.

    * Physical: I do not engage in physical contact such as cuddling, kissing, or body worship.  Expect warmth balanced with formality and reserve.

    * Emotional: my caring is tangible and genuine, but our connection always remains in the professional realm.  Refrain from pursuing any type of personal relationship.

    * Time: compensation is non-negotiable and required at full rate for my time in any form, including companionship, correspondence, and distance domination.

    * Health and Safety: communicate honestly about health issues.  Follow any directions I give on physical preparation.  Arrive completely sober.

    * Power exchange: During our time together, I maintain control and direction.  I engage with mutual interests at my discretion, and do not offer any activity as a purely commercial service.

    *Other limits: I do not offer "full toilet" or "brown showers" sessions, strap on play, forced bi,  "slut training," rubber/latex fetish play, smothering/face-sitting, full-body leather bondage or mummification, wrestling, boxing, or breath play.
 
I respect your boundaries.  In addition to the following, I am open to learning about any additional boundaries you may have.

    * Confidentiality: your confidentiality is my highest priority.  Every system I use for our communication is designed to protect it.  I use pgp encrypted online forms, password protected encrypted email, a blocked phone number to communicate with you, and can provide a written confidentiality agreement upon request.  I will not contact you without your permission.

    * Safety:  I take a range of measures to address health and safety concerns.  My chambers are immaculate and well-maintained.  I attend educational workshops regularly and am fully trained in the techniques I use.  I insist on informed consent, and will discuss health and safety issues so that you may make informed decisions.  I offer a library of reference materials and can point you towards other educational resources as well.

    * Limits: I respect limits.  My application and induction process promotes thorough communication so that I will understand your limits.  The use of safe words and safe signals allows you to assert further limits during play.