Consider the dilemma of someone whose most pressing desires are at odds with one another.

He is consumed with unique and alternative desires, yet he has a reputation to protect.  The pursuit of his desires has the potential to either complete an already remarkable life, or to undermine all he has worked to create.

The complex nature of his desires match the distinctive person he is in the world.  Perhaps he is a divergent thinker, regarded as an innovator in his field.  He may be an intellectual or an appreciator of the arts.  He may make a unique creative or cultural contribution.  Whatever his field, he is critically engaged with ideas he is passionate about. 

His desires not only require an environment of absolute confidentiality, but a counterpart who inspires his respect and connects with his considerable imagination.

Very likely, he has no trouble finding women who are interested in him, yet he understands that because his desires are so unique the chances of finding an appropriate partner are slim.

His desires are erotic in essence, but they amount to a longing of his entire self.  He wishes to take what feels to be his rightful place, in service to and under the control of a woman who understands and enjoys this part of him. 

To feel inspired by this woman, he needs to connect with her on multiple levels.  She must be someone who shares his passion for ideas and stimulating conversation.  He hopes she will be there with him to enjoy what he considers to be the finer things in life, such as the arts, nature, fine cuisine, and cultural experiences.

It is to this person that I extend what I trust is a compelling invitation.